Decisions, decisions.........

Jim Rohn
It doesn't matter which side of the fence you get off on sometimes. What matters most is getting off. You cannot make progress without making decisions.

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William Joseph Slim

When you cannot make up your mind which of two evenly balanced courses of action you should take - choose the bolder.

Two quotes that have quite relevant meaning for me at this stage of my life. I feel like Ive been living in limbo since my life took the terrible debilitating turn that it did in the beginning of the year, the time has come to make some huge decisions and Im trying so very hard to take the advice of the second quote! im tired of baby steps of saying one step at a time of having to take the safe option its just not me!! Once Ive made me mind up everything seems so much easier, its just that Ive had so much trouble MAKING UP MY MIND!!!

Im so tired of worrying what others think, what others will say, why oh why do I care so much??? This is my life, right??! the only people I need to keep happy are my children, me and anyone I choose to love in the future, right??!

The question I have is...if Mark had have just left in the traditional sense would I care what others think so much?????

Kirsty

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Comments

[Jo Kay]

Kirsty,
You have just answered your own question. You have yourself, your beautiful children and those that you choose to love in your life. That is all that matters.
There will always be people in life that judge others but those that you share your life with and that love you are the only ones that you need to look after.
If you listen carefully..... you will know the answers.
Live for you and your loved ones.
Jo xx

[Andrea Amu]

You just need to be true to yourself Kirsty! You are such a strong woman... let your heart and mind lead the way!

[Binxcat1]

ahhhhhhhhhh... tell 'em to F@$# right off... be BOLD chick... YOU are an INSPIRATION!

[Kirsty]

lol thank you...I am getting to that point very quickly lately! -x-